I lost "Me" inside "Him"

Why do we as women get a man and suddenly lose sight of who the hell we are? We get so quickly wrapped up in this new man that he consumes every second of our day. The people you use to hang with become nonexistant, the things you use to do become a memory and before we know it everything we do involves this man. We eat, sleep and breath him and lose sight of ourselves.

Your old friends began to talk about you behind your back and clown you for never coming around anymore. What's funny is most women love their man more than they love themselves so loosing site of ourselves is something we neglect to even notice. This is proven by the things we let men do to us. We care too much about what they need, feel and want even when that man is dead wrong. Do we even notice that men still continue to do them and live their own lives? Most men don't throw all of their extracuricular activities away for us. They still maintain a balance between their love life and their personal life outside of the female. They still chill with their friends, they still hang out and give themselves time to miss us but we prefer to be all up in their face 24/7.

Now exactly how long do you expect this to last? Don't you know that you take away some of the excitement and the magic when you smother a man with your presence all the time. Give him time to miss you! Give him time to wonder. Give to time to crave you. Give him time to think about you. How can he do any of this if you won't let the man take two steps away from you? You all up in his mouth every time he take a breath.

What Im saying ladies is...you have to continue to take time and make time for YOURSELF. It's essential. It's Healthy for you and for your relationship.

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